A compromise against yourself is forged when you give in to the will of another. You decide against your own better judgment and inner voice to do something that goes against what you feel. You will know it because you feel it. Whatever you are doing simply feels wrong for you.
Yet? We find ourselves doing it anyway.
It can be an effort to avoid conflict or to make another person happy. But aren’t making yourself happy.
Compromise in certain situations is necessary. But if you find you are doing this a lot – the result will be that you are straying from your own path.
This can lead to anxiety, fear, anger, resentment, depression, and worse.
It’s lovely to make people happy. Just don’t do it at the expense of your own.
The PAST: Many have had very painful and traumatic experiences. No one wants to go through that kind of stuff. (and I am very sorry for the suffering). The fact remains though that each experience in our lives has helped to shape who we are.
In order to gain full acceptance and love for ourselves, we have to be able to integrate the dark and the light.
There is not one person on this planet who has not suffered and though some are more extreme than others, pain isn’t up for comparison. We all experience pain differently. Pain is pain.
Hate, anger, resentment, even a want for revenge give your power away to whomever or whatever hurt you on an ongoing daily basis. The way to break free is to take that power back. You cannot change the past. You can only go from here. Shift your focus to the present because it is the ONLY time that ever exists.
Show yourself the love you may have been lacking. The respect, the care. It is time to take care of YOU.
It’s the still small voice you often hear and think of as a hunch or inner guidance. It is the most important part of spiritual development – learning not only to hear it but to listen. Intuition IS divine guidance and your internal GPS.
The most important question you can ask yourself is “Who do I listen to?”
My name is Samoiya Shelley Yates. In 2002 I drowned with my son in a lake and had a near death experience where I met Light Beings who told me how to miraculously save the life of my son. Later, in 2007, the Light Beings came to me with a project called Fire the Grid. They said, “What you did for your dying son, you can do for a dying planet.” They indicated that each one of us is an energy being, first and foremost, and that we, as energy beings, are attached to a hexagonal grid that surrounds and works through the planet. Each one of us has one hexagon in that grid. Nobody can get another hexagon. You have one hexagon and you’re either feeding that hexagon with light or you’re drawing light from it. So, every choice that you make counts and matters. In 2007, we organized the world’s largest mass meditation event ever held with millions of people participating to reconnect the Earth grid to the energy grid of the Universe. We were supposed to be the bridge that linked the two grids and we were not doing our job. So, the Light Beings asked us to draw the energy of the Universe through us to the Earth to feed her grid, which was depleted so badly that she was in danger of disintegrating. We succeeded. In 2009, we gathered again, but this time it was to send energy back to the Universe and at the same time program the Earth field with our most joyful, peaceful, and abundant-for-all thoughts. When we fired the grid again in 2011, we raised our collective field to assist the Earth as she entered a Light Barrier. We needed our energy field to be at the highest frequency in order to pass through without problems, which we did.
A NEW DATE
Now, the Light Beings have invited us to come together on July 19th, 2021 at 11:11 GMT for the next Fire the Grid project. We will pulse the energy grid to program the Fifth Field, thereby setting the parameters for the future earth and life that we want.
What does it mean to pulse the energy grid? Well, your own individual body is connected to an energy grid that is composed of millions of hexagons. Each human has its own hexagon, and when you pulse your hexagon with the thoughts of your greatest human pleasures and joys, and then you say “Thank you,” you literally flood the energy grid with exponential energy.
We are living in a difficult time and we really, really need to unite. The Light Beings have told me that the project has been hastened, it has been sped up, because of the current events on the planet. They would like us to pulse the energy grid and prepare it for the next events. Now, I’m not sure what the next events are, but I know we’re part of it and we’re either working towards the New World or we’re working away from the New World.
It doesn’t cost anything, there are no commitments, and there’s no joining something. There’s just sitting with your joy, thinking about it deeply in your body, so that you feel it. You feel the joy of eating an ice cream cone or hugging your child or walking in the sun. You feel it in your vessel, your body, your human suit, and then you really connect with that joy, sitting for one hour. Then you simply say “Thank you, thank you, thank you!” and that elevates your field even further. That’s Firing the Grid, and that’s what the Beings want us to do in order to elevate the Earth grid now.
I’m not saying that everything’s just going to be better overnight after we Fire the Grid. It doesn’t mean the shift to the Fifth Field or any other big changes are all going to happen immediately, but it does mean that we will have set off a chain reaction of events. We, the people, the energy body that we are, have committed and connected to this field. And when we commit and connect to this field with a “Yes, yes, yes,” we’re ready to be more than we are. ”Yes,” we’re ready to remember what and who we really are. “Yes,” we desire to create an abundant, wonderful, sharing and kind world for all of us in the midst of everything we are in. What do we have to lose? These Beings gave me this information before. Those projects all worked. They were incredible. Millions and millions of people participated and we didn’t have social media at the time. We didn’t have YouTube. We didn’t have Facebook. How did we do it? We simply shared an email, and people passed it on. That said, if your heart resonates with this project, share it with someone you love.
FIRE THE GRID 2
I’m here again to say that these Beings have a new project for us. They’re calling it Fire the Grid 2. Flood the junctures, remember, become. Become who you’re meant to be. Stand in the adversity that we’re living in right now. Turn from that which no longer serves us and turn towards hope, joy and gratitude. See it in everything that you do. See it in the people that you speak to. See it in the eyes of another. For once, remember that you are a divine being in an energy suit, in a body. You can look in somebody else’s eyes and see that they too are energy beings in suits.
In the beginning, Fire the Grid left you to determine whether these Beings are angels or extraterrestrials or otherworldlies or simply pure energy with a consciousness that can actually communicate with us. We still do not define them. Use the words that make you feel comfortable. Now I’m not unique. I’m not the only person that can communicate with these extraterrestrials, otherworldlies or angel beings. For me, I call them otherworldlies or Light Beings, because I know that every single one of us is a Light Being in a human suit. It is a thing that we share in common. It is a thing that makes us unified. We have just forgotten.
So, the Fire the Grid 2 project is booked and it’s rapid. We have just a few weeks. July 19th, 2021 at 11:11 GMT, we the people, get to program the next field. It is the first time in humanity’s history that we actually get to choose our next direction. The last time we had a quantum leap, we evolved from Homo erectus to Homo sapiens. It was a huge quantum leap. We became physiologically different. We became mentally, energetically, physically different beings. That quantum leap is coming for us again and we can participate in that with Fire the Grid 2. We can join together and set that bar as high as humanly possible, which are the instructions. We have to elevate our fields to 857 hertz. It is the ultimate frequency of Love, Compassion, Joy, and Gratitude. It is what will unite us as we move forward. The Light Beings said it very clearly: “Unite in your similarities or you will surely disintegrate in your differences.” Our similarities are the key to this major positive change in our lives and in our world, for the future of humanity. WE CAN DO THIS AND WE ARE DOING IT NOW!!!
Faith in the Universe, God, and Christ are Under Attack Like Never Before… You don’t have to be religious to follow the example of Jesus Christ. He is what we all should aspire to be. A great humanitarian and human being.
Many of us have the wrong idea of what a soulmate is. A soul mate is not your perfect or only love match. It is a soul to whom you are deeply connected who have incarnated here on earth and you and they have agreed on a soul level to be one another’s teachers.
When that soul contract comes to completion and the lessons have been learned and one or both soul mates need to move on it can be tough to let go even if you know it is for the best. The depth at which you feel the break is because of the soul level connection you have with that person. That connection, no matter the circumstance, feels like home. It feels familiar and safe. When it becomes necessary to sever that cord, there can be a grieving process much like as if there was a death, because there has been – the death of a friendship or a relationship. It’s the earthly portion of the connection.
Simply put – for as good as that initial connection can make you feel, disconnection can feel equally as bad.
The thing is, you cannot keep hanging on to old lessons. When you attend school, once you complete the class, no matter how good of a time you had, if you passed, you must move forward. There are no 40-year-old sophomores in high school for a reason. You just don’t belong there any longer. Relationships and friendships, when soul contracted, can work in much the same way.
Dr. Seuss had it right. “Smile because it happened, don’t be sad because it’s over.” Thank your soul mate for the growth and the lessons (good or bad – it’s only a judgment anyway). Do your best to focus on other things and people in your world and move forward asking for only people, places, experiences and circumstances that are in your best and highest interest. If possible, let them know that on that soul level you love them but that in this physical plane, it is time for you to go.
Allow yourself to feel whatever you feel and know that this too shall pass. Trust the Universe that they will move on as well and be ok without you.
Life is nothing but a series of experiences and lessons. Love, laugh, learn and move on just doing the best you can for your own personal growth and those around you that you care about.
Sometimes it is simply time to move on to the next chapter so you can see what’s next.
Ask yourself why you are making the decision you are… what is your motivation? Often we make snap decisions without really understanding the basis behind them. Take the time to understand what drives you and your choices.
When faced with a choice or decision, it often feels like the response should be immediate. Look before you leap is a wise old adage. Before reacting, just stop. Pause. Wait… simmer a bit. This helps you to remain at cause rather than ending up at the mercy of effect.
Practice articulating how you feel without placing blame on others. When you remain responsible for your choices and actions, you retain the power.
Mastering self-control is vital. Say “No” to yourself sometimes. Work on refusing temptations which do not benefit you, and especially any that could cause harm.
Or Devil’s Advocate – flip the script and see things from an opposing view. Sometimes this can help open your perspective or even strengthen the view already held.
Hold yourself accountable for your actions, flaws, mistakes and consequences of actions. Breaking agreements, even with yourself can be damaging to the psyche.
Enough with the negative self-talk!
Just stop it. Drop the critical commentary. Celebrate your wins and forgive yourself any perceived failures. Most failures are simply lessons – we learn and next time are better prepared.
Find a Mentor
Feedback is vital. Find someone whose opinion you respect and let them help guide you.
What is your body saying?
Are you aware of your body? Do you notice your own stance, posture, gate and hand gestures? What are the conveying to others? Simple things like standing up straight, meeting someone’s gaze or not crossing your arms gives you an aura of confidence and assurance. In turn, you tend to feel more that way as well.
What are your strong points, skills, gifts and talents? What are your weaker areas? Play to your strengths and minimize the weaknesses or if you are so inclined, work on them to become stronger.
Take an honest look at yourself on every level. Spiritual, emotional, mental, physical. Keep track of your progress as this is sure to change over time.
It can be a challenge to focus and quiet your mind, just start with something simple like 10 minutes a day. If thoughts come to your mind, brush them away and refocus. Tip: Guided meditation is easier for beginners than silence.