If you have seen the Matrix movies you understand that the world, we live in is a construct. We are souls having a human experience. Hollywood is putting it out there plain as day for all to see. “Code” (of some sort) runs all of this – everything we see, touch, taste, consume, and experience.
Food has been purposefully genetically modified. Why?
GMO’s were created to contaminate the food code in a very literal sense. Forcing fruits and vegetables to grow at a rapid pace by changing the DNA of the plant and the fruit it bears it also changes the nutritional content. Our soil has been depleted from over farming but mostly from use of toxic chemicals (again contamination of the original code).
Over time people (as a population) have become less and less healthy. This is partly because we have, over the same span of time, been fed less and less “real” food.
Processed, preserved, frozen, chemically enhanced, antibiotic stuffed, all in the name of convenience. And – Here we are. Obese, ill, nutritionally deprived.
Our bodies were not created to run on these shoddy ‘codes’.
Enter Covid Now here we are in a supposed Pandemic which has been purposefully manufactured. COVID-19 created and patented in a lab and released on the world. The ‘fix’? A “vaccine” which is mRNA based genetic therapy that alters your personal DNA markers. They are very literally convincing you to give them the password to YOU so that they can hack your code. Yet not a peep is being said out nutrition or natural support and in fact naturopathic doctors are being silenced.
The virus is hitting those who are unhealthy with low immune systems the hardest.
It has long been said that Food is Thy Medicine. Each food holds its own unique code just as you do. Each food helps the body function in one way or another. When you create an eating plan it should be based on what you need, what your body is craving, and what would help to nutritionally support it.
Instead, we have been programmed to reach for what tastes good, what looks good, what’s being advertised to us or is on sale.
To keep going in a healthful manner we need to listen to our inner guidance and tune out the propagandized barrage of programming we see daily. Food can heal you if you realize it’s a specifically coded type of fuel.
You wouldn’t pump diesel in your new sports car and expect it to run…
Why do you expect peak performance from your body run on subpar produce and processed nutrition depleted prepackages meals?
Sure, fast food may be delicious, but I am pretty sure some of the 1’s and 0’s fell out.
The PAST: Many have had very painful and traumatic experiences. No one wants to go through that kind of stuff. (and I am very sorry for the suffering). The fact remains though that each experience in our lives has helped to shape who we are.
In order to gain full acceptance and love for ourselves, we have to be able to integrate the dark and the light.
There is not one person on this planet who has not suffered and though some are more extreme than others, pain isn’t up for comparison. We all experience pain differently. Pain is pain.
Hate, anger, resentment, even a want for revenge give your power away to whomever or whatever hurt you on an ongoing daily basis. The way to break free is to take that power back. You cannot change the past. You can only go from here. Shift your focus to the present because it is the ONLY time that ever exists.
Show yourself the love you may have been lacking. The respect, the care. It is time to take care of YOU.
Self-sabotage should be the last thing anyone does, but it’s the most likely! You’re invited to watch the AHA Process to End Self Sabotage and learn how to stop self-sabotaging behavior.
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This is the worst part of self-sabotaging behavior:
It’s so easy to justify.
…one argument, one trip to the fridge, one beer—and in the moment, they may even seem helpful. But like a river eroding away rocks, self-sabotage creates a Grand Canyon of self-defeat from which it’s hard to climb out.
~ Scientific American
Right? We slip into it without a second thought. In the heat of the moment, we want it. Self-sabotaging behaviors seem like the right thing to do at the time. It may even feel impossible to stop.
What is self-sabotage?
It’s when you get in your own way. And it’s hard to pin down.
Giving up on a goal
Obsessing about a goal
Not speaking up
Talking too much
Breaking a diet
They’re all self-sabotage. And none of them are. It all depends. And if you really want to get confused, try pinning down the points of view that sabotage you and create self-fulfilling prophecies.
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Why you should take notes on this video:
If you are self-sabotaging, get your notepad. Write down new insights during the video. Some have called it a missing link in mental health and personal development. That sounds over the top to us. Still,
How is the AHA Process different?
In a world of shallow promises and quick-fix techniques, real solutions are hard to find. Self-sabotage is not a shallow issue. The solution isn’t shallow either. Yet, we present the AHA Process in an easy-to-follow way. You’ll see the concept and hear some simple stories. And it can change your whole feeling about self-sabotage.
Have you ever changed when you learned something that never occurred to you? Take notes. You’re about to discover the “never occurred to you” of self-sabotaging thoughts and behavior.
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Without realizing it, we make inner choices to feel deprived or refused – or helpless, criticized, rejected, betrayed, or abandoned. Doing this defies common sense, but our unconscious mind operates on irrational, not rational, principles.
The underlying cause of self sabotage is a psychological attachment.
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Don’t give up. I searched for 20 frustrating years for the answer to a simple question:
Why don’t people (myself included) apply what they already know?
Thanks, Nike. You’re right. Do it.
“Yeah, but that’s the problem, isn’t it?” I would reply. “No one is just doing it!”
That got some laughs, and then…nothing. I never pushed further, but the questions plagued me. Why don’t I just do it? What’s wrong with me? Will it ever be different?
The AHA Process to End Self-Sabotage Has Answers
At long last, I understand why we don’t apply what we already know. When I get in my own way, I can get out. And I know how to handle not wanting to get out of my own way. The solution to self-sabotage has changed my life (no, I’m not perfect). I hope your life will change, too (but don’t expect perfection).
Join us and watch our free video. I’ve put too many forms on this page, so this is your last chance:) See you on the other side.
Releasing people from your life who are not good for you is a vital piece in being a well balanced happy emotionally healthy person. It is, however, not easy on any level a lot of the time.
How do you determine if someone is toxic to your life?
Toxic people create chaos in other people’s lives on a pretty consistent basis
They expect that you will deal with their drama without question – their problems are your problems
Your life gets put on the back burner in order to try and help them
They seem to switch from loving to angry easily and seemingly without reason. They are very unpredictable
Toxic people are manipulative. Their desired outcome is what matters to them
They refuse or are unable to admit responsibility for things that go wrong in their lives, always blaming others
They make you prove yourself to them over and over ie. “If you loved me… If you were really my friend…”
They never or rarely apologize even when blatantly wrong OR they do so in order to manipulate and continue right on with the same behavior anyway
They expect you to be there for every crisis but when you need them, the support isn’t available
Toxic people tend to exaggerate and draw you in
They are only supportive of you when it fits their own agenda
None of this is to say that these people do not love you in their own way or that you do not love them. Love, however, is not a valid reason to trap yourself in an emotionally draining or even abusive relationship or friendship.
We often mean to help these toxic friends or loved ones when what we are really doing is enabling the behaviors. Setting boundaries is healthy. If they do care about you, they will respect them.
Loving yourself means taking care of yourself. Sometimes taking care of yourself means saying no to other people’s drama, taking a step back and putting some distance between yourself and the other person. It doesn’t mean you don’t care or that you no longer love them. It means that it is time to value yourself and focus on your own life.
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We all want the very best for friends and family. Many of us have a tendency to take on other people’s problems as if they were our own. We do it out of love, but ironically it can often lead to codependency in relationships as well as self-neglect. I speak from experience in this. My natural inclination in life has been to try and “save” the world, especially those closest to me. Unfortunately, I have found it just doesn’t work that way.
It is difficult to watch someone make, what you believe to be, bad decision after bad decision leading his or her life in a negative or non-progressing direction. We want to intervene, even at times – to grab them and shake them and say “what are you doing!?” and literally shove them in a better direction.
What we have to realize is that as much as we love or care about them that no one can make decisions for them. The only person who can rescue them… is them.
Why do I call Non-Attachment an art?
I call it an art because as easy as the concept is, it takes years, sometimes lifetimes to master.
It is easy to be jokingly callous and step back saying “Not my circus, not my monkeys”. But it’s heart wrenching and unnerving at times to pull back, relinquish the illusion of control, and simply allow that person and situation to be what it is and to work itself out.
Now in saying this I do not at all mean withdraw love or support.
A simple “I am still here and I love you.” Is one of the best statements of caring you can make to another person. There is no better gift than that of unconditional love. In that gift it allows the other person to know that it is ok to try – succeed or fail, you won’t think less of them and you will still be there.
This also allows you the mental and emotional space you need in order to take care of yourself. Getting lost in another person’s issues, regardless of love, is never healthy.
In order for anyone to reclaim their life and get it “Back on Track” that drive and power have to come from within. Owning responsibility for their decisions and their actions will lead them to a place of control and from that feeling of self empowerment comes both self esteem and the start of self love.
Written for: The Alberta Street News – Back on Track Column. Columnist: Sarah J. Barendse
Every day I read things from and hear people saying that they are working, striving, dreaming of attaining and reaching for… All of that is great…
What’s not great is that I also see in some a distinct feeling of not currently being enough, having enough and they aren’t happy.
Goals are wonderful and necessary. They are prized, valued and pushed for in our society. The problem is that goals are always future oriented. What about the here and now? It isn’t possible to live in the future anymore than it’s possible to live in the past.
The moment you truly appreciate yourself simply for the you-ness of you and that no one else could ever fill that role in this world, valuing yourself and your uniqueness – the perspective starts to shift.
Success isn’t about attaining anything other than a solid inner feeling of safety, security, self-love and as a result happiness.